Law Of Attraction And Parenting; Manifesting A Happy Household

As a mother of two, nothing kicks me out of alignment more than my 2 teenagers! I’ve listened to endless Abraham Hick’s videos on this topic and have had enough life experience to know that knowledge of LOA is a huge component in having a happy household!

How do we utilize the law of attraction and manifest a joyful home?

The key component in this process is understanding mirror reflections. What is a mirror reflection you ask? EVERYONE, especially those up close to us, are a reflection of us! They are a reflection of our thoughts and beliefs! Abraham Hick’s says there actually aren’t any others. It is only us and extensions of us! Wait, so when my daughter calls us asshats I believe I am an asshat? Yep! The time I’m referring to I had been beating myself up over what I believed was a series of bad decisions and she was there to remind me of that!

I took this reflection as an indication of where my vibration had been and intending to be kinder to myself. Since that moment things have been so much brighter! Then, from my new vantage point, I was appreciative of her input! If your child is being rude, does that mean you are rude? Not necessarily! If they are being rude either you’re rude to other’s but more than likely you are rude to yourself!!! Or, you focus often on other’s being rude but either way, it’s active within you or they wouldn’t be that way around you! They could be the rudest in all the world but if you’re loving and appreciating yourself, they’ll be different around you! Use these mirror reflections for the valuable insight it provides! That puts a spin on their behavior doesn’t it?

The greatest gift you can ever give another person is your own happiness.

Esther Hicks

Another key component in happy home is your alignment!

Nothing is more important than you feel good! Your job is to feel good and then, ONLY parent from that place! Do not, I repeat do not, try to parent from outside the vortex (alignment)! Do whatever you can to raise your vibration! Some days a few breaths will raise your vibe. Sometimes a meditation or sitting down to write out what you appreciate and why you love it, will put you in alignment. Other days setting a timer for 45 seconds (no more than a minute so negative momentum doesn’t pick up) and punching pillows will release enough resistance to move up the emotional guidance scale (another Abraham term. Check this out if you’re not familiar!).

The easiest way is to start as soon as you wake up in the morning, finding 3 things to appreciate. While you sleep, your cork naturally raises. As long as you don’t introduce negative thoughts, you can maintain this high vibration! Be mindful upon awakening to not throw your thought net too far into the day by worrying about work, the kids etc! There are MANY processes available to raise your vibration so make your alignment your top priority every day and only talk to your children from inside the vortex!

We cannot focus on their problem behavior and receive a solution at the same time!

You must feel a little better in order for the solution to come! Again, alignment must be your daily goal! If you spend a lot of time focusing on their back talk, start focusing more on the times they’re kind to you! Talk and think about how sweet they are! You get what you focus on, wanted and unwanted, so if you don’t like what you’re getting, change your focus!

Set more intentions daily!

The day before, how do you want to feel when you wake up? Write it down! How do you want to feel during the day? Write it down! How do you want to feel at the end of the day? Write it all out. You create your reality! Just you!

Children are AMAZING teachers!

Why? Because no one has taught them yet that the world doesn’t revolve around them! They are selfish little buggers, exactly as they’re supposed to be! They came into this world remembering their value, don’t let them forget! Yes, our world revolves around us! The more we fill ourselves up, then, from that place of connection, we have something to offer others! From that place of knowing their power, then they’ll be guided, intrinsically, to help another.

Show them unconditional love!

So, few people can really do this! That means I love you AS IS! I love you because that’s who I really am! I love you because I choose to focus ONLY on your best qualities! I AM a lover and ANYTHING less than that feels bad to me and will knock me out of my alignment! My alignment is my top priority EVERY day!

A great process for this is to write out their positive aspects! Write out their name and ask yourself, why do I love you? If it doesn’t flow naturally right away, that’s ok, it just means that you haven’t practiced this vibration very often. No big deal just intend to find more things you love about them. When you see something in them that you adore, write it down! As you focus on their positive aspects, you’ll see these qualities more and more! Remember, you create your reality!

Segment intending

Another fantastic process to do often is called segment intending. Also an Abraham Hick’s process of prepaving the energy before each segment. For instance, you have to bring them to school in the morning. Take a minute to focus in on how it’s going to go. “We will have a safe, peaceful ride to school and we will be the only car in line. Focus on what you want to happen and phrase it in the positive. You don’t want to say, “there will be no fighting” because guess what you’re going to get? You guessed it! There will be fighting because the universe doesn’t hear no/not/won’t! You can segment intend before you go into work, during lunch, driving home, cooking dinner, climbing into bed etc. It sets the energy in motion and allows you to be in the receptive mode! If you have a big event, like bringing them to the doctor to get their shots, do not wait until that morning to do it! Prepave days in advance so you’re activating what you want instead of what you don’t want.

The Law of Attraction, your best friend!

The law of attraction is your best friend if you can learn to utilize this powerful law, you’ll find your days just get better and better! And, the better it gets, the better it gets!